The mission of PAIRS is to teach those attitudes,
emotional understandings and behaviors that nurture and sustain healthy relationships and to make this knowledge broadly available
on behalf of a saner, safer, more loving world.
PAIRS is an extraordinary relationship education program.
PAIRS works "miracles" and routinely restores respect, love and intimacy - even for couples on the brink
In carefully crafted, safe settings, PAIRS leads individuals
and couples through extraordinary learning experiences that build effective relationship skills. Whether
working with "in love", struggling, or painfully stuck couples, PAIRS delivers the tools to communicate
skillfully, to problem solve constructively, and to build lasting love.
PAIRS recognizes that relationship permanence is largely
based on continuing intimacy. PAIRS demonstrates within each participant that bonding is the heart of intimacy.
Through removing barriers and practicing skills, PAIRS participants learn how to connect to each other
powerfully, effectively and consistently.
PAIRS training is just that - Training and Education.
PAIRS teaches skills for a happy and fulfilling relationship. It is not therapy and you will
not be asked or required to reveal anything about your relationship in our classes. The skills training is for you and your
partner and what you discuss is for your own personal benefit.
PAIRS workshops will complement Marriage or
Couples Therapy if you are involved with a therapist. Therapists throughout the country have discovered that these
dynamic workshops provide the skills needed for effective communication, bonding and problem-solving.
Who Can Benefit?
PAIRS Workshops are for men and women in any
stage of a relationship, who are:
What will I Learn?
PAIRS can help you:
Develop the necessary skills for sustaining a loving and healthy
Learn how to speak, how to confide, how to listen with empathy
and for greater understanding
Discover the causes of disappointment between couples
Learn to handle conflict creatively and to "fight fairly" and
Improve an unsatisfying relationship
Learn about Emotional Allegeries and the importance of bonding
Avoid mistakes made in previous relationships
Improve your ability to create a joyful, fulfilling future with your